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the title is deceptive, because the issue itself isn't about the actual taking of the pictures, but whether or not we should take pictures at all.
let me set up the situation. I do a lot of transports for children in homes set up with nurses taking care of several special needs kids. these homes are for very special needs kids that require full time nursing care. many are on ventilators, fed through a tube, and generally have a poor long term prognosis.
Because I am a vent certified medic, I get called to transport these kids to the hospital, or to doctor appointments. Parents who have to put their kids in one of these homes are required to sign over healthcare power of attorney to the facility.
now, i was talking to one of the nurses i see pretty regularly, and she was telling me she wished she could get some decent pictures taken of the children.
pictures cannot be taken of any of the children without parental consent because it becomes a HIPPA violation. My wife has experience photographing special needs children, aside from our own, and I said she would be happy to help out any family that wanted pictures. The nurse cited two immediate problems. first, she says none of the parents could afford a professional photographer to come in and take pictures. second, most of the parents dont care enough to even want pictures taken, they basically gave their kids up to the state and never saw them again. which is just sad.
the first problem was easy enough. my wife volunteered to do free portraits for the families of any of the special need children in the homes I work with. some of these kids i have watched grow up over the last few years. I cant mention names of course, but these kids deserve more than the hand they were dealt.
the second problem...is more of a hassle. I have been in contact with the facilities, and they are fine with us taking pictures there, as long as we do not include anything in the photos that might identify any of the other children. easy enough i think. The problem is the parents. The nurses there are fine with talking to the very few parents they actually see, but do not want to get involved with contacting any of the others, even though the nurses themselves would love to have some family pictures to put by the kids beds.
so....my question is this. are the nurses right not to want to get involved any further? is it just too much of a hassle? I cant get any information myself, due to state regulations, but i had thought about asking the nurses if they would be ok with mailing a letter to the parents if they don't want to make a phone call. just a quick message, free pictures of/with your kid if you want it. Ive met a few of the kids parents since some actually go to their kids appointments, and the ones that are actually involved with their kids lives will probably be very amiable to the idea. my gut instinct is to leave it there and just deal with the parents I see and can talk to in person, and forget about the others. its pretty unfair to the children, but i am afraid of stirring up a hornets nest trying to help out people that don't really care.
thoughts?
let me set up the situation. I do a lot of transports for children in homes set up with nurses taking care of several special needs kids. these homes are for very special needs kids that require full time nursing care. many are on ventilators, fed through a tube, and generally have a poor long term prognosis.
Because I am a vent certified medic, I get called to transport these kids to the hospital, or to doctor appointments. Parents who have to put their kids in one of these homes are required to sign over healthcare power of attorney to the facility.
now, i was talking to one of the nurses i see pretty regularly, and she was telling me she wished she could get some decent pictures taken of the children.
pictures cannot be taken of any of the children without parental consent because it becomes a HIPPA violation. My wife has experience photographing special needs children, aside from our own, and I said she would be happy to help out any family that wanted pictures. The nurse cited two immediate problems. first, she says none of the parents could afford a professional photographer to come in and take pictures. second, most of the parents dont care enough to even want pictures taken, they basically gave their kids up to the state and never saw them again. which is just sad.
the first problem was easy enough. my wife volunteered to do free portraits for the families of any of the special need children in the homes I work with. some of these kids i have watched grow up over the last few years. I cant mention names of course, but these kids deserve more than the hand they were dealt.
the second problem...is more of a hassle. I have been in contact with the facilities, and they are fine with us taking pictures there, as long as we do not include anything in the photos that might identify any of the other children. easy enough i think. The problem is the parents. The nurses there are fine with talking to the very few parents they actually see, but do not want to get involved with contacting any of the others, even though the nurses themselves would love to have some family pictures to put by the kids beds.
so....my question is this. are the nurses right not to want to get involved any further? is it just too much of a hassle? I cant get any information myself, due to state regulations, but i had thought about asking the nurses if they would be ok with mailing a letter to the parents if they don't want to make a phone call. just a quick message, free pictures of/with your kid if you want it. Ive met a few of the kids parents since some actually go to their kids appointments, and the ones that are actually involved with their kids lives will probably be very amiable to the idea. my gut instinct is to leave it there and just deal with the parents I see and can talk to in person, and forget about the others. its pretty unfair to the children, but i am afraid of stirring up a hornets nest trying to help out people that don't really care.
thoughts?