I think the way we behave and how we respond to things come from forces outside ourselves so in some ways I think our lives are partly mapped - a bit like a computer program: we can only function within it's limits but we still have a degree of freedom.
This is how it is in animals - but unlike animals we humans can observe and assess our own behaviour and then, through a conscious effort, change it.
Nothing is written - but we do have to observe the rules of grammar
I've always wondered if we looked deep enough biologically whether or not we'd find what makes us self-aware. Everything mental can be explained, IMO, except for that. Its the one thing that really is unaccounted for, yet makes all of the difference. Anyway, your post got me thinking about that.
And cultural studies is the genre I enjoy looking at. I didn't know what the name of it is, so now when I go to the library, I can look in that section to find the viewpoints and opinions of others. As I believe with politics (segway), I think we would all be better off by turning off our mouths, turning up our ears and eyes, and
just attempting to understand the mindset behind other people's opinions. So many horrible things happen around the world (wars, murders, affairs) because people are incapable of, or unwilling to, see things through others eyes. If everyone on this forum were willing to take on some different perspective and question their own belief system, and then respond to others by means of civil questions rather than arrogant, stubborn rebuttals, a political forum would work on here. This, is really my only complaint against other people, as someone who values empathy greatly. But I guess when it comes to complaining, I should just get in line or take a number.
*Senor hound takes a tag with number 234,461,523 out of the red dispenser, only to hear the intercom sound, "Now serving complaint number seven... number seven..."
Edited to add: I do understand the irony of my statement by saying others lack perspective, and then going on to say that wars, murders and affairs are horrible. Although
almost mutually agreed on, I understand that even these points can not be agreed upon totally. But I have taken that into consideration (perspective), questioned it, and come to the conclusion I still find them horrible, which is all I'm wishing others to do for certain events in their lives. A true conclusion can only reached after a period of research, that's all...