appriciate the feedback. I went today to play with cameras and may have decided on a route to take. I went from looking at the Nikon D300 to being told that that was too much camera for me as a beginner I would get overwhelmed... (I do know that this is an interest that is here to stay) down to the nikon D90 (which I didn't get to play with because they were out of stock) to talking about getting a bit cheaper body (XSi) and investing the difference in glass to noticing that for about $300 more I could go from an XSi with a 17-85 4.5-5.6 to the 50D with the same lense as they are running a promotion... Now the conundrum is should I just go with the XSi and invest the difference into an extra lense or just bite the bullet and get the better camera which he figures I won't really grow out of anytime soon. I will have a bit of a windfall in February and will likely be able to afford an extra $700 or so in lenses /equipment
I really don't get the whole "it's too much camera for you" thing.
I know you've already decided, and that's fine, but I would reconsider the D300 if you have the budget for it.
The -only- thing that the D300 doesn't have that might be a benefit to a new shooter is some of the "cheater" modes where you flip to "action" or "portrait" or whatever, and the camera makes some basic settings adjustments for you. These are undeniably handy for a new person, but anyone who intends to grow in this space would likely outgrow most of these fairly quickly, and you can most certainly do without them.
Any other camera is just going to do things like not have a physical dial to adjust the shutter speed, or come with far less focal points, or won't have a focusing motor, etc. In other words, the lesser cameras are gimped.
Thus, why I don't understand the whole "it's too much for you" thing. Is having all the capabilities that you need available and easy to control "too much for a beginner"? Wouldn't seem so to me.
I'm sure you'll be very happy with whatever you decide on (Nikon OR Canon), I would just very seriously reconsider buying less of a camera than you can afford just because someone patted you on the head and said "Aw, aren't you cute... but that's a camera for a BIG BOY."