OMG!
If there is one thing I don't miss about the US
this is it. Of all countries I've known, we are the only one that manages to mix extreme sexual obsession with extreme prudishness. We need to get right in our heads on the one side so that we have a chance to get right on the other.
I love Sally Mann as a photographer. Since I haven't watched the movie Ann mentions (not for the first time, btw) I don't know if SM was trying to push the envelope or was just a woman of her time. I can't find this movie here.
But I can tell you one thing for sure. I have been trying to push back the limits because I hate them just as much as any other kind of stupidity. This hate started some 25 years ago when a french friend came to spend the summer with her daughter.
We registered her daughter in a day camp for a few weeks so we could go and shoot during the day. Then came the swimming pool day and my friend took her daughter there, dropped her off with her bag and we went shooting.
You should have seen the uproar when we went and picked up this kid. "Your kid's swimming suit doesn't have a top!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!"
My friend was like: "She is 8 y.o., she has nothing on top. Why does she need a top?" Since I didn't get it either, I couldn't help. Let's just say we had to find another day camp after buying a suitable swimming suit
Absolutely ridiculous.
And, to respond to some of the posts, yes, it is a cultural thing. But when there is something in my culture I don't like I fight it. And this is one thing I find ridiculous.
I'll leave you with two thoughts: 1/ In her book "C*nt" Inga Muscio mentions the fact that the more sexually repressed a country is and the more crimes are comitted against women. The US has the most crimes against women of any of the first world countries.
2/ I worry quite a lot about the people who have a problem with Sally Mann's photos. Do they have a problem with their own feelings?