Well, I do kind of get where you're coming from here.
It used to be I'd take all my dead tree books (and there were a lot of them over the years because I read a lot and I keep my books very nice) to my favorite bookstore here and they'd give me a nice credit or check and I'd be happy to continue to spend my $$$. For the record I've been spending my money there for many years, almost as long as they've been open so when I walked through the door it was smiles and "Hey you!" and they really knew me. I was probably one of their best customers and I'd steered many a reader their way over the years besides.
About 2 years ago I decided to get rid of about a 1/3 of my paper books. I needed the $$$ and lots of it was serious collector's stuff, and/or from the areas they really tend to like to buy books in. I'd sold books there in the past and was treated fairly, made some good money back and I honestly expected the same.
I walk in there and they literally offer me practically nothing for books that I know they tend to want to re-sell, that they tend mark up to as much as 2/3 of their original retail value. I was truly stunned. For the record this one guy owns the shop and he mostly runs it. There are few employees and his overhead is pretty low because he owns the building. He can afford to pay a decent price for books and still make his overhead, his profit and then some and I know that for a fact because he's pretty much told me so.
Usually you go in there and you're getting at least 25% of the book's retail if it's not a used book to begin with. If you trade it's more like 30%. But he offered me less than 5% so I was pretty stunned. I asked him quite nicely "What was up, and why so low?" and he just shrugged, acted like it was no big deal and then told me that if I didn't like the offer then I didn't have to take it.
To be blunt he wasn't at all nice about it. He was almost outright rude about it and that was his attitude to me, to someone who had been supporting his store for most of my life. Fact, I seldom sold a lot of books. I was far more often the buyer and not the seller so I doubt that was the issue, and he clearly wanted the books. I could tell that. He just didn't want to pay anything like a decent price for them. If he couldn't get them for nothing, then he simply wasn't that motivated to buy them, that was it.
Obviously I picked my books back up and went out to find a better deal. About a week later, after much thought I sent him back my store credit card with what was left on it and I let him know that he could give it to another customer if he liked as I probably wouldn't be using it. I haven't been back since and I really have no intentions of buying books from him ever again. I don't feel particularly welcome or valued in his store anymore and I just don't see why I should go out of my way to patronize his store anymore if he doesn't appreciate my making the effort to do so.
Oh, and btw, his major competitor bought my books for far more than he wanted to. I hated to go there, because they're not that friendly and they really do compete for what used book business there is here but I will say this, they treated me well, paid me fairly, and clearly appreciated my business. Which was nice while it lasted. Last time I went in there? New owners, and things had changed quite a bit. Prices had too. The place had gone almost all new books, and the long term employees had been replaced with minimum wage making teen cashiers and the much valued good customer service? Well it seems it left with the used items and the employees who really cared. I left completely bummed as that was the last good used bookstore in town.
I go where people appreciate my business. If they do they will take care of the people who take care of them. It's that simple. I've unfortunately learned that just because someone has taken care of me in the past is no guarantee that they will in future.There's always a bottom line, bills to be paid, and a profit margin made, but you know there is such a thing still as good customer service also, and lately I have to say that a lot of the places that I used to go to a lot because they had good customer service just seem to be completely dropping the ball.
I absolutely do notice when that happens. When businesses I patronize start acting like I'm just a number I do tend to stop going there. I'm a pretty loyal customer usually and I go out of my way to patronize small businesses and particularly local ones. But I'm not about to be treated like that. Fastest way to lose a good customer in my book is to forget that they ARE. In this economy you'd think that businesses would be fully cognizant of that fact, but you'd never know it by the way some businesses treat people lately. To me it often seems that customer loyalty isn't appreciated at all and that customer service is nearly dead.
Honestly I don't really need to take my books to a bookstore anymore to get them sold. If I put the lot on CL or take them out to the flea market generally they'll go just fine and usually for more than a bookstore will give me. Yeah it's a pain in the tush taking pics and making a list, but I'd much rather do it myself than be totally ripped off.
It always amuses me though when the local bookstores complain that they are being hurt by Barnes and Borders and the like. Fact is 99% of them went out of business not because the 2 big chain bookstores came to town but because they priced themselves right out of the used book market.
For years, I was perfectly happy going to the used bookstore once a month and shelling out $20 for a decent pile of used books. But between the fact that almost none of the bookstores left in town wants to pay a decent rate for books now and the fact that they're selling them all for 2/3 the price of books new the bookstores here are actually giving me far less incentive to shop from them.
A new paperback novel is $8 on average. The whole point in buying used was to save quite a bit and to recycle. When I walk into a bookstore and the paperbacks there are maybe $1 off the retail price then why would I want to buy used? To save a buck? Please, it takes me that much in gas just to make the trip! I might as well stay at home, order that same book for $2.99 with free shipping on Amazon and save myself the effort and the gas. It's far easier and besides which I don't have to deal with snotty underpaid clerks et all.
I'm beginning to think the internet has forever changed the face of customer service for good. People who actually shop in stores they're just not getting the treatment they used to. I don't know. Maybe it's because it's getting so much easier and common for stores to deal with customers online too.
Think about it. So long as they're online most stores will have a never ending supply new customers no matter what they do with you, the physical customer. They can more easily afford to be snotty these days. Physical customers can be replaced, with digital ones, and who needs to pay real cashiers when one guy with a computer can probably do the work of 10 people that way? The less real people businesses have? The less overhead they'll have ultimately.
That's the way I figure it anyway...