See you guys dont know much about me and what I have done! I have helped probably hundreds of kids online in photography you guys just havent seen it because your not on my facebook or twitter! and no one has asked for help I try to do as much as I can join my facebook and twitter and you will see what goes on. Just 2 weeks ago I made a kids dream come true hes been wanting to shoot hip hop artists and I picked him up to work with me so he can make his dream come true.
That's all well and good, but what Bitter is saying is that there *are* kids HERE... who ask for help. No, they're not posting "Hey sdotbphotography! What do you think of my work? How should I do this? How do I make this happen?" What they write looks more like this, "Hey guys, I'm just getting into concert and music photography and I was wondering if you could take a look at these images and tell me what you think. What should I do differently? Also, I'm having a lot of trouble with XYZ... what do you recommend I do for that?
If anyone here has experience with this and can help me, I'd really appreciate it!"
No, it's not directly addressed to you. No, they might not be PMing you because they MIGHT not even know you're posts exist on here in between the millions of other posts that get put here daily.
What Bitter is saying is that you should stick around... read *others* posts... *offer* them help.
If you don't wanna comment on the pictures of babies and cars and ducks... don't. But there DEFINITELY are a handful of people who post for critique of their concert and music promo photos.
I'm certainly not shooting celebrities. At least not in the intimate fashion that you are, but I definitely have more experience (read: have been doing it more than a week and have had plenty of trial and error) with concert photography than some of the newer people here, and I don't wait for them to ask me *specifically* for help if I see them asking for help on one of their threads.
People come here for the community and knowledge of other photographers. Note the word *community*. No one wants to have to join your Facebook or Twitter to get help from you after posting here.
If you want to be helpful in *this* community... all Bitter and some of the others are saying is then to be a *part* of this community. Don't outsource your help to your other social networks. Help the kids here.
Help people *here* realize their dreams or whatever it is you're doing. Otherwise it *does* come across as advertisement to some of the other members and that doesn't sit well with them.
Please don't think I'm coming down on you... I'm simply just trying to explain to you why you got such a knee-jerk reaction from your post.
I'm really glad you were able to help that kid out 2 weeks ago... That was really cool of you and I'm sure he's gonna love you forever for that. But again... you don't have to wait for the members here to specifically come to you to help them.
Don't stop posting... that's not at all what we... or at least *I*... am saying... but definitely be an active part of the community and people will respond to you much better!
And besides... surfing these boards and posting in others' threads... you never know what you're going to learn. YOU might even become a better photographer yourself, because of it. And THAT'S never a bad thing, is it?

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