I think as I grow as a photographer I become more interested in the way a lens "draws" rather than particular bokeh, sharpness, etc. Like, I'm in awe of the Zeiss Otus 85 1.4 when used with a D800 (I think the photo I loved was at f4). Just incredible sharpness, contrast, etc. And I LOVE the way the Canon 135mm f2L looks on a FF sensor. It just looks so beautiful.
Sure, bokeh is cool. We all obsess over it at some point or another. But aperture is a tool, and a pro uses it as such. Some shots may be bokehlicious, and others not at all. I guess that's the difference-- a pro uses it when needed or wanted, and a noob tries to attain it 24/7.
Jake