OK, I'll chime in here.
Do I hate you, no!
Do I like you, I don't know?
I think that you and I would get along good if we met. You say a lot of the things that I'm thinking. I'm a very sarcastic person. That combined with being quick witted, can get me in trouble. I've always got an immediate response.
The difference is, I know when to say it. Sometimes things are better off left untold. I think sometimes you just blurt out the first thing that comes to mind. And usually there is no tact. It just comes out. I'm sure lots of people find that offensive, and rude.
After reading all of your posts over time, I honestly don't think that you mean any harm or ill intent. You're just typing what you're thinking, and it's hard to interpret what a persons intentions are while looking at a monitor. The tone of a persons voice, or a facial expression tells a story. Any time that you think that there is a possibility that you have offended someone, you have almost immediately apologized. That alone shows me that it's not intentional. Or you would just rub it in at that point...right?
I'm curious to what you mean by "a huge hate on for me"? What, are you constantly getting bad rep or what? And if someone is leaving bad rep, without saying who it's from...that's chicken****! I say, try not to let it bother you and just keep doing what you're doing. You've obviously given thought to your approach as far as posting is concerned, or you wouldn't still be here. So just keep it up, and like photogoddess said...post more pics!