This year we'll celebrate our 30th anniversary as a couple, 37th year of being in each other's lives. Neither of us believe in "Valentine's Day" per se, but we do believe in letting the other person know how much they mean to us. Having a "Valentine's Day" at least once a week makes sense to me. We usually used the official Valentine's Day to give cinnamon hearts and chocolates to our daughters, but they're all grown up now, so it's phone calls and mailed cards. But telling someone you love them never gets old. Granted, I've been enormously lucky, both in terms of who I married, and how our extended family(ies) get along, and I know that not everyone has that kind of luck or pleasure, so I will use this Valentine's Day as a moment to wish all of you fortune in finding the loves in your lives.