Is there an authority you could point me to regarding raw image editing? Right now i'm just doing things until i think its great.
That's not far from right. But here's an authority: Rudolf Arnheim (1904-2007) was a perceptual psychologist, and wrote the classic text on the subject, "Art and Visual Perception" (originally in 1954, and revised in 1794). That is certainly an interesting book, but more to your point might be an essay you can find online at
www.kenb.ca/z-aakkozzll/pdf/arnheim.pdf written in 1971 titled "Entropy and Art". It's not an easy read, but it is well worth the effort.
Here is a quote from the Introduction in "Entropy and Art":
"When nothing superfluous is included and nothing indispensable left out, one can
understand the interrelation of the whole and its parts, as well as the hierarchic scale of
importance and power by which some structural features are dominant, others subordinate."
What your purpose in editing a image should be is the adjustment of that "hierarchic scale of importance and power". You do not want to remove anything indispensable, but you do want to eliminate what is superfluous. Of course to do that requires that you, as the creative artist, decide just exactly what the photograph is suposed to communicate to a viewer. Only then can you decide on what editing will have the affects of adjusting the "interrelation of the whole and its parts" to be the most effective way of visually communicating your intent to a viewer.
And there are reasonable differences in what you or the next person might decide the appropriate message is! It is clear from coments here that there are at least two basic potential images. Some might well want an individual portrait, and for that purpose much of the background is just wasted distraction! Crop it, blur it, clone it... but reduce or remove it as much as possible.
On the other hand, some people see the potential for an environmental photograph, or even a bit of Street Photography. A Street shot doesn't use the person as the subject, but rather as an object that helps to describe the subject. The subject is the relationship between people and their surroundings. That means those background objects are just as important as the center object! How close in importance you want them is a matter of taste and style. Blur them a little more to push them down in dominance, sharpen them up a bit to increase their importance. (For most Street photographers, that would mean reshooting that shot, to get more DOF and a significantly sharper background; but that isn't necessarily the only way to see it.)
Hence, perhaps for your purposes right now, the steps are actually fairly obvious (though not "easy"). Decide what you want an image to communicate to a viewer, and then systematically remove distractions and add clarity to symbols that produce the strongest visual sense of your message. Perhaps you might start by deciding what is the biggest distraction, and correcting that. Then, or perhaps first, deciding what symbals are important and how each can be enhanced.
It isn't really far from you "doing things until I think it's great", but selection of "things" has to be organized!