I think Bokeh may matter more to those interested in portraits or photographing people in general. It never really appealed to me. There is a soft background setting on my Nikon D3200. It does perfectly well for my bokeh curiosity.
Lonnie, you think?
Maybe it’s just your inexperience coming through!?
I’ll just speak for myself but I use bokeh/OOF all the time when shooting sports. I use it when shooting nature all the time too. I use it when shooting street and very selectively when I shoot landscaps, especially micro landscapes.
I also shoot a lot of people. Both studio and location. In fact often more people than anything else and for people is when I use it the least!!! I love an extremely crisp, sharp portrait, front to back.
I’m pretty darned sure I’m not alone here on FM on this but like you I’m new here so don’t want to generalize.
In fact experienced shooters, especially pros use bokeh/OOF anytime they deem it will improve an image or just to get a certain look!
But it should be a conscious choice not a serendipitous accident!
John