my cousin is getting married. my whole family thinks i'm a built in photographer. i told my mother to please PLeASE reiterate that I don't have the desire or the skill to shoot weddings. WHy do people think that just becasue you have a camera and like photography that you want to shoot their wedding for them for free? I feel like no matter what I say, I'm stuck. My cousin isn't hiring a photographer at all, they are getting hitched ASAP for some reason and didn't really plan much of anything. They don't have money for a photographer and everyone in my family has this in their mind that "oh, kelly will be there, don't worry. she'll get shots for you"