^^ as mentioned above
You need to learn more about what the aperture setting it.
It's not ONLY about letting in more light
but also Depth of Field .....
So you need to test and learn about it
Go find a long fence - a standard wire fence
Get next to it about a 45 degree angle.
set your aperture to f/1.8
use a Single Focus Point focusing - learn the different focusing points on your camera.
Learn each one and how to use it because your camera apparently liked the umbrella and focused on it. (with single focus point then aim it at her eye, don't let the camera decide for you)
focus on one point in the fence - such as add a ribbon or something to that point for distinction.
Then take shots at f/1.8, f/2.8, f.4, f5.6, f8, f/11, f/22 or anywhere you heart desires
First look at the smallest and largest aperture .. such as f/1.8 versus f/22
Notice the difference in what is in focus.
Then look at f/1.8 vs f/11
then f/1.8 vs f/4
f/1.8 vs f/2.8
That is Depth Of Field
The depth of what is in focus based on the aperture.
Now think of someone standing there and the "depth" of that person from a focus point.
If the camera focused on an umbrella then basically, let's say, anything more then 1/2 inch either direction will be out of focus. If you focused on her eye, then maybe only her outer nose and ears would be out of focus. And a aperture of f/5.6 would probably be needed.
If you want something in focus, you have to select the correct DOF.
Then you can add the Formula for distance to the subject in relation to DOF
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A Flexible Depth of Field Calculator
and if you want a certain background OOF/aperture then you need to be at a certain distance
or just adjust your aperture for DOF and get the background bokeh that is the result of it.
Just don't use f/1.8 because you lens can do it.
I went bonkers with my 50mm/1.8 doing alot of stuff in f/1.8 until I did that fence test and learned alot. When I did self portraits I did f/2.8 because I could. a mentor of mine kept telling me basically why becz of DOF ... why? because I could LOL Now I know better. There's give and take to everything and you have to "Get the Shot" right the first time which is the most important. You can always take multiple shots and vary the aperture when someone is standing there .. I've done that alot until I started understand more about distance/DOF calculations.