hahahahaha.... you are blaming the camera! HA! The highlights are due to bad lighting.. period!
Men, how many cameras did you have since now? I can't believe you are unfamiliar with the camera's dynamic range.
I had a D80 until last year. At normal exposure, even inside, the whites were blown out. I had to shoot weddings RAW and torture myself for about two weeks on a single wedding to recover especially bride's dress highlights, as much as possible, in Lightroom. I hate D80 now.
I must mention that I have all my familly professional photographers since my grandpa', and I also managed a minilab bussines for 10 years. I have seen them all.
I switched to Nikon D90 at the end of the season and it was a fantastic relief. Very wide dynamic range, highlights where fine and I could recover much easyer overexposures. I have also used a D5100, and this one is just fenomenal.
Please don't argue anymore on this elementary knowledge. The man has the perfect exposure for the woman's skin. The camera just can't handle both lights.