Socrates, IIRC you live in my state.
Although I believe the police uniform should be respected, you cannot deny the fact that not all the persons "in-uniform" in our state have earned that respect. In fact, many cross the line and abuse it. I see this practically on a daily basis. This is not to say that everyone who shows distrust or question authority is considered disrespectful. They are entirely two different things. In fact, government was designed to distrust and question..... people should always question authority in a respectful manner... stand up for your rights in a respectful manner.
We are all forgetting we are products of our environment. The police in my fine town far west of 287 (north jersey) are wonderful... they seem to understand the concept of "To serve and protect". Then again... I don't think there has been a violent crime in my town for decades. I don't think the police department has any trouble finding man-power in this attractive area.
As I commute farther east, the police seem to show a bit of disdain to that concept. The beat gets tougher and the police departments struggle to maintain a presence. This impacts both sides of the fence... growing distrust from the community and growing aggression from police (at times resulting into power trips).
I have personally been on the other side of that aggression... It was extremely uncomfortable and it didn't have to be ... I did not appreciate being called and "disrespectful kid" and being yelled at by a Paterson Police officer on route 80 last year. I also did not appreciate the threat of being "fanned" with tickets. (Yes.. it happens enough that people have placed a name to it) Officer immediately profiled me making a false assumption as I'm 33 who looks like I'm in my early 20s with a red car often owned by teen agers (Neon). What did I do wrong? I simply asked what I was being pulled over for. That 1 time resulted in me walking around with a chip on my shoulder for all police officers for MONTHS! Now just imagine if I lived in Newark or Paterson dealing with that every day of my life... friends and family members who I care for also going through the same treatment? I can't be sure I would have enough will power to prevent that chip on my shoulder from growing into a "hatred" for the uniform. I consider myself fortunate....
Sorry for the rambling but I just wanted to point out that a lot of statements being thrown around with little effort to understand this fact.
Honestly... the best way to deal with an police confrontation is to politely answer with simple responses ("yes sir", "no sir") and say nothing more to avoid escalation (the officer too might be on a heightened state of emotion). On some occasions, I've simply asked if I am under-arrest and (assuming not) told the officer I will be on my way. I've learned that the street is no place to discuss who is in the wrong or right... all it does is cause escalation.
btw.. The Unformed police in Texas (my home state) especially the County Sheriffs seemed a lot more laid back.. kinda miss that. That's a big statement considering I'm probably one of the biggest pessimists I know.... all my friends and family make fun of me for being "too serious" all the time.
yes.. I RESPECTFULLY question (distrust seems too strong of a word) all authority. People in uniform are people too.. in fact they are strangers... AND NO... I do not "have issues with authority and probably put anarchy symbols on their binders in high school." As someone put it... :x
Damn.. its 4am and I have got to get to work at 7am. Can't sleep. Oh yeh... I avoid route 80 big time. Anyone visiting my area should also try to avoid 80. Haven't had one ticket or confrontation since I started taking an alternate route.