Another girl problem

monicam · Apr 20, 2006

I was on a date with my girlfriend earlier today. Out of the blue, she suddenly told me she was Iesbian, but she claimed I'm effeminate enough that she feels ok with me, and it's more acceptable to society this way.

What am I supposed to do?? :drool:

Oldfireguy · Apr 20, 2006

I guess that depends on you and what you want out of the relationship.

It's nice she feels OK around you and being with you makes it more acceptable to society but I'm guessing you had something else in mind.

I think you both need to sit down and figure out what each of you want and then decide.

bace · Apr 20, 2006

HAHAHAHAHA...Your girlfriend thinks you're a woman!

MommyOf4Boys · Apr 20, 2006

bace said:
HAHAHAHAHA...Your girlfriend thinks you're a woman!

BHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!! :biglaugh:

bace · Apr 20, 2006

Although my first reaction was clearly the worst and simultaniously the funniest, I will take a moment to point out that you just scored the perfect opportunity to get two women in bed at the same time.

Mind you, if your girlfriend thinks you're a woman then it wouldn't surprise me if two girls wasn't really your idea of excitement.

monicam · Apr 20, 2006

bace said:
Although my first reaction was clearly the worst and simultaniously the funniest, I will take a moment to point out that you just scored the perfect opportunity to get two women in bed at the same time.

Mind you, if your girlfriend thinks you're a woman then it wouldn't surprise me if two girls wasn't really your idea of excitement.

:lmao:

Rob · Apr 21, 2006

So who's a girl and who's a boy?? Damn the internet is confusing?!

So you're called Monica and you're a boy? Who looks like a girl, who goes out with a girl who likes that but might be a lesbian? What? And who's the wet boy in your avatar, and how does he fit into it?

Help me out here.

Rob

Arch · Apr 21, 2006

Meysha · Apr 21, 2006

I'm confused too.

Is monicam a boy or a girl???

meh... who cares.... either way you're a winner! ;-)

LaFoto · Apr 21, 2006

I think monicam has always been a boy, all along, and I never took monicam for a girl.
I don't think it is the name "Monica" that hides in his screen name, but "cam" for "Camera" ... and then we do / did (he no longer posts) have a member from Bangladesh whose name is "Moni" and that is absolutely a boy's name in his country and stressed on the "i", I would think, and therefore I have always thought our very "monicam" here is another "Moni" with a "Camera", maybe?

Now it is up to you, monicam, to put things right for us once and for all.
Is your avatar your self-portrait (as I have always thought it is)? And are you a boy, but, according to your lesbian girl-friend, "effeminate enough" so she can imagine to be with you, too? (This whole situation I find more confusing than anything, though).

terri · Apr 21, 2006

I really want that popcorn smilie right now, only I fear being bashed for using it...... :lol:

Rob · Apr 21, 2006

Come on monicam, we need answers!!!

Rob

LittleMan · Apr 21, 2006

terri said:
I really want that popcorn smilie right now, only I fear being bashed for using it......

MommyOf4Boys · Apr 21, 2006

Meysha, I love your new avatar!!! It rocks!! LOL
As for MonicaM. I think you need to find a girl that finds you manly and likes men or you will be scarred for life!