If the aps-c has better density but the full frame has better dynamic range which is the more important aspect? I wouldn't be cropping the aps-c image., just the FF to match.
I do shoot some birds at distance and sometimes the lighting isn't always what we'd like. My thought was the better dynamic range and higher MP on a full frame might allow more recovery of shadows and allow me to crop the image without losing as much as an aps-c.
A professional wildlife photographer recently told me he has never rejected an image for dynamic range, but has rejected them for noise. Generally, you are increasing ISO, resulting in a lower DR, because of poor / low light. Poor / low light tends to reduce the DR of your scene so a larger DR that comes with a low ISO may not be required. You can use the spot meter in your camera to measure the DR of a scene.
There are some techniques to deal with low light situations. 1) check your histogram to make sure you are not blowing out the highlights. Most find blown highlights unacceptable, but accept buried shadows, unless it's key features of the subject. 2) Topaz Noise AI and even the latest noise reduction algorithms in LrC and PS give pretty amazing results. 3) Take a correctly exposed initial image at high ISO, then start taken longer and longer sequences of shots at lower and lower shutter speeds / ISO trying to be as stable as possible. Hopefully, you'll get a sharp and less noisy shot than that initial shot at a much lower ISO. 4) Take a monopod or tripod with you, 5) If your subject was reasonably still and took a longer sequence of shots then you can align and average them in, say, LrC, to reduce noise. IF you align and average 2 shots taken at ISO 3200. The result will be as if you took the image at ISO 1600, ..., .
For birding, I use a mirrorless Z9 at 45.7mp. I have a button set to DX (aps-c) mode to make the subject larger in the frame and make the AF system lock faster. It goes to 19.5 mp in DX mode, but you can do a lot with 19.5 mp. If you have to do a severe crop with either a FF or aps-c camera, try Topaz Gigapixel AI or LrC -> Photo -> enhance.
Pick a camera you are happy with. The newer the better because of improvements in sensor technology and lower read noise electronics. If you will be shooting wildlife / birds or sports or even dogs running in the backyard, look for more AF points. If you like the Canon brand, stick with them and the R10 is an excellent choice, but a good used dslr will take great images while you decide how much time and money you want to dedicate to photography. I love street photography and love using my 2017 Nikon D7200 24mp aps-c camera even at the blue hour for street photography. You can also take great images with a 12mp smartphone camera, if you have a good working knowledge of the art and science of photography.