plus we pay an extra $10.00/month for a faster connection and it makes a difference.
As a side note, you may want to check with your ISP on that.... Most (all that I know of) residential ISP will allow you to pay for faster download speeds, but restrict all upload speeds to a maximum of about 750k.
The fact of the matter remains is that a vast majority of internet users are only downloading, and rarely upload more than very small amounts of data at a time. Since Upload and Download transfers both work on the same line.... the less "upload" transfers that are going on, the more "download" transfers go on. Buy limiting the upload speeds, ISPs can offer faster download speeds, and that is what their customers are most interested in.
In order to get faster upload speeds, you would need to pay for a premium business account, and those cost much much more than $10. If you are paying that extra $10 for upload speed, you aren't getting it.