look through magazines at the images that attract you
(Funnily enough, I like Elle more. Seems they empower women a little. They recently ran an article about how the fashion industry is finally coming out of the damn crack-addicted-skinny-twig-of-a-girl phase—"Yay for some weight again"—while Vogue ran an article all about what "fat" women should do to shed those pounds, in a myriad of ways. *rolls eyes*)