Your doing my ****ing head in but i still want to help you

The male version of erose. Look at where she has developed. Miracles do happen.
I'm not *COMPLETELY* hopeless!

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NO NO NO, No way near Erose. She listened and understood.
That's because I knew that I sucked... and STILL suck, compared to a lot of your (meaning everyone on the forum) work, and ESPECIALLY compared to the level I want to be at... but the only way I'm going to get there is by learning from those that are better than me. :sillysmi:
Only thing they have in common is creating threads that go on for 5+ pages and a high post count in little time.
What can I say? I'm talented. :lmao:
You ask for CC, yet there is a sense of 'argue' in your responses. Telling people you know the triangle and focusing, yet not ....but still sticking to your guns and telling us over and over you understand it, is getting tiring (along with telling us there is nothing interesting to shoot around you over and over and over).
Exactly. If people are telling you there's something wrong with the image, that pertains to something you *thought* you knew... then you *don't* know it as well as you thought. Maybe you were *completely* confident in thinking you knew how it worked when you read it somewhere, but trying to make it HAPPEN is much more difficult than that. The best thing to do when someone tells you something is wrong, is to stay humble, say thank you, and go back and assess what they're telling you and practice with a few hundred thousand times.
I do listen and I do understand. I apply everything that's said to me into my photos.
If I post up a picture, and it may be missing part of something that was previously said to me, then that's my own fault, yes. But it might just be something I forgot, or simply missed.
So then don't argue with them about it if they say you missed your focus or don't know your exposure triangle. If you "forget" to use your exposure triangle, then they're right in the sense that you don't know it as well as you do. You can't forget something like that... it's one of the most fundamental things in photography... so if you're forgetting pieces of that... go back and studying and practice with it more.
It's not like I'm taking soft pictures, or messing up the exposure on purpose. It's called learning, correct? And you learn from your mistakes, correct again?
and before someone says "But you aren't learning from your mistakes", yes, I am. As I said, It may just be something that slips past me. Or I may not notice.
And part of learning is just being humble when someone tells you that you did something wrong. No, you didn't do it on *purpose*, but it's clearly an issue in your images, so rather than fighting to the death that you understand everything, be grateful that people are taking the time to help you and point out your mistakes SO THAT you can learn from them.

If someone says your focus is off... but you know that you "put the AF point right over the bunny's eye" so you don't understand why there *would* be focusing issues... your response shouldn't be, "I know I did it right, so there shouldn't be a problem." Your response should be, "Okay, so here's how I did it... what do you think I did wrong?"
And before someone brings up a tripod,
I'm 17. I work 15 hours a week at a retail store for minimum wage.
I'm 24. I work 40+ hours a week doing data entry in a warehouse and my husband and I still live with his parents.
Unlike those of you who can go out and buy $2000 cameras and such, I can barely afford my insurance from month to month, and have money to spare.
I didn't go out and buy a $2,000 camera... and I would KILL to be able to afford insurance. We have none. We have bills coming out our asses that we have to pay for... what do you think adulthood is? All cookies and cream, rainbows and butterflies, where people can suddenly afford to buy whatever they want, whenever they want? ****, I need to find me the tree that's growing money because apparently everyone ELSE knows where it is except for me...
Someone send me a PM with directions! :lmao:
Also, I don't buy myself stuff..I never have. I find it a waste of money. I'd by a homeless person a $6 combo meal at McDonalds before I got myself a double cheeseburger. I know I NEED a tripod. But I also know I can manage without, and still get some decent photos.
Something tells me that you've bought yourself a COUPLE of things in life. No one has *never* bought themselves stuff... and I'm really glad that you'd be willing to buy a homeless person a $6 combo meal at McDonalds, but how many homeless people are knocking at your door everyday? I'm willing to be it's not EVERY day... so... every day... put away the $6 you haven't spent on a homeless person that day (unless that particular day you *have* bought a homeless person a combo meal), and before you know it you will have your tripod.
I think I'll just stop posting stuff altogether, since all I seem to get are 5 pages of people saying "you're doing it wrong, you don't listen, you suck, etc etc etc."
I. Am. A. Slow. Learner.
I. Make. Mistakes.
I. Don't. Even. Have. A. Proper. DSLR.
Those aren't excuses.
they're facts.
Well dude... fact of the matter is... you *do* suck. *I* suck. This **** don't happen over night! :lmao: :hug::
You should embrace the fact that everyone is trying to help you. Most people on this site get 1... maybe 2 responses on their threads and they're lucky if those responses are ANYTHING helpful. You've *many* people in this thread trying to help you out. SEVERAL which I know *I* learned from and helped to better my work. Don't argue with them... don't make excuses about being young and poor, or not having equipment. I used HOUSE LAMPS for lighting when I first started. I STILL don't own any decent lighting, but I was lucky enough to have networked with someone with a home studio and equipment I'm allowed to borrow any time I want.
Networking is important.
It's also most often times free. Just keep that in mind.
And if you're a slow learner, then you need to stop doing 20,000 things at once.
People keep telling you that you need to work on your exposure triangle and focus, right? So forget the lights. Go outside on a nice day... go to a park... go to wherever... and practice taking pictures using your exposure triangle and nailing your focus.
KEEP doing that UNTIL you stop forgetting things.
Come back and post those for C&C specifically stating that those are the two things you were working on and get people's feedback to gauge your progress. Once you've master that, work on you composition. Once you've gotten good with that, add something else to your plate.
You can't do it all at one time... but ALL of it takes practice.
Keep working at it.
