in practice I haven't found the iso performance to be any different, and the AF struggles under the same conditions.
slow231, how do you mean when you say it "struggles" under the same conditions? Do you mean the D7K has better AF?
I had a harder time for the little bit of time I had the D600, but was not sure if it was the camera, or "me".
Yes, I've kind of already figured that FF is where I need to go. Getting a longer lens is not the solution for me. As mentioned before, I can't stand a mile away from the kids I shoot.
The AF is definitely more of what I am a little worried on, as I do need to nail focus, and fast. Especially on that fast moving 2-3 year old crowd.