Man, I wish we could sit down in a pub with a couple of beers, we'd have a few spirited conversations for sure!
I never refuted that high W/s studio setups are better or worse. In fact I openly said that for the pro, there are likey no other solutions. But I did also say that the small setups can also have a valuable place in the professional's studio and an even bigger place in the amateur's.
Modeling lights... merely a difference in methodology. Some people prefer to see the true final effects of their setup in a test shot, not use modeling lights. Even from day 1 when I started using my studio setup with the modeling lights, I tried them a few times and never really liked them. Since I was already used to knowing how the light was going to fall in advance and then taking a test shot and see the real "final result", it got to the point where I did not even install the modeling lamps in my setup.
Besides, modeling lamps will not show you the difference in the results of different ratios from side to side, they only show you where the light will fall, and that is easy to predict or more accurately shown in a test shot, including light variances.
S'cuse me gents, I've just come back from a hard night at a client... I'm going to bed for a couple of hours.