Yeah. You know, I think women become aware of the possibility of this type thing at a relatively young age (like when old enough to have a drink). If I've wandered off when I come back I get a fresh drink (by then it's probably moslty melted ice or backwash anyway). I might have wasted money on a drink that way but it's not worth finishing it and taking a chance, not unless I've been sitting there keeping an eye on it or had a friend watch it when I left the table.
Exactly this. I've known not to leave a drink unattended since I was a teenager.
Unfortunately, one of the many things that women have to think about that men (usually) do not even give a second thought to. Like ways to protect yourself and be safe when hiking, running, walking at night, in parking structures, staying in a hotel alone, taking a taxi or Uber, camping, walking on campus, at a party...
Sorry to hear that this happened to you Dave. Hope you’re feeling better.