'tis the season for stress. I'll be somewhat stressed on Thursday, only because of a house full of people. Friday will be great (we don't go to the "Black Friday" shopping frenzy) because it will only be three or four of us. And you, if you want.
Aww
I spend Thursday with Buzz's family, which is smaller than mine, but in a way it's more stressful.
My family is big and loud when we're all together, but we also tend to be more relaxed about things, so if something burns or if cooking takes longer than expected, we just shrug, pour more wine, and start teasing whoever burnt the food

The biggest source of stress is really my mother, who generally has poor time management skills and so is always stressed and running around trying to get things done, even though she's not been responsible for the whole dinner in many years. When she's not cooking, she's instructing everyone on how they are doing something ALL WRONG!
But for the past few years, my mother has been going to Florida to visit my sister and her husband for T'giving, so there's one big source of stress gone!

But then we fell into each spending the holiday with our respective mate's family. So that leaves me at Buzz's house, which is fine, but it gets more tense there than I'm used to with my own family.