I know what you mean. MIL is having some heath issues so we (lovely wife and her sisters, Lazy Lobster) have been doing the cooking.
I think we'll all have to grab a few Coffee House moments the night before (and afterwards). We can be our own support group.
I actually don't find it that stressful to do the cooking. It's not an easy task, but the thought of just being in the kitchen cooking is actually quite soothing to me. When I threw myself a 40th birthday party, I actually did all the food myself. I spent two solid days cooking.
But I like the idea of a Coffee House Thanksgiving Support Group
I'll also be reviving a tradition I created for myself when I started going to Buzz's house for the holiday. They always have Pillsbury Grand biscuits. Always. And I adore buttermilk biscuits. When I was losing weight a few years ago, I was determined to control my eating during the holidays without getting too stressed out by counting every bite of food I took. And I knew I wanted that biscuit. So I figured I could just exercise extra that morning, and I went running.
Ever since then, I've done a "Run for the Biscuit!" jog on Thanksgiving morning. The past 2 years, I think, I didn't go, though. Lots of reasons, none of them having anything to do with lack of opportunity. This year, I am going to start it up again. It might be tricky because I haven't gone running in a very long time, and I've had a few weird things going on with my right foot, but I don't care - this year I'm running for that damn biscuit so I can enjoy it in peace!