I agree the moderators here are a step (or ten) above the average.
I've been on an email list with an... "interesting" list owner - there were a couple of long-running leg=pull (lets suck in the newbies and see if they bite) threads which he regularly attempted to squash (and he absolutely loathed anything in the slightest bit off-topic), one day the big cheese got all hissy about things and closed the list down. No notice apart from a temper-tantrum email from the owner, just gone. Another list member started a new list and sent all us regulars an invitation to join, which we did. Couple of hours later the original owner decided that he'd been a bit harsh, and reopened the list (with a whole heap of extra rules) and invited us all back. Very few actually did. Oddly enough the new list thrived, the old one just died, slowly. Another thing, many of the regular listers have now moved on in life, but we keep in contact like an extended family still.
Slighly different circumstances on another list - two regular posters got into a real bunfight, ended up with threats of legal action (and here in Oz that isn't something you do unless really, REALLY aggrieved). To protect himself and the other innocent parties the list owner shut it down. (Can't say I blame him, but it was a huge disappointment to all the regular contributors) Another lister reopened it with a slightly different name, and banned the two warring parties.
I suppose it also helps that most of the posters here seem to be generally friendly and helpful folk too. It's rare to read anything that seems harsh.
Cheers
Jewel