I understood what he was trying to say perfectly... But maybe it's cuz I speak "Joe".
And I actually understood his initial argument. I think all he's trying to say is that you shouldn't bash someone's photography based on the type of camera it was taken with.
I don't know how you came to that conclusion. Noone's bashing anyone's photography based on what camera you use.
He's saying that people who are surprised that you can get good photos out of a snapshot camera are stupid.
He's saying that people who purchase dSLR cameras when they don't even know how to use their snapshot cameras are stupid.
He's saying that you don't need an SLR to take good photos (which is true). However he also says that given the same circumstance, you can take just as good a photo with a snapshot as you can an SLR.
That he uses his Fuji s700 as much if not more than his d40.
He's saying that snapshot photos blow SLR's out of the water.
He's saying that people only look at the cost and label of a camera.
He's saying that it's the eye, the timing and settings that make a good photo.
Some of the above points, noone is arguing. It's him calling people stupid for either being surprised at the quality of snapshot photos, or purchasing SLR cameras before mastering a polaroid camera, as well as his attitude that people have a problem with.
Then it is people subsequently arguing that intrinsicly an SLR will output better quality photos than a snapshot camera.
None of the above, has got anything to do with people bagging someone because of the camera they use. If it has any relation, it's the OP bagging SLR users, saying he is better than they are with a "snapshot" camera, when he is essentially imitating what an SLR does anyway.
As for the wedding photo, I'm with tsaraleski, I would say getting that depth of field natively from the camera would be nigh on impossible from that distance, and without any PP in photoshop (from a snapshot camera, or even an SLR-like camera for that matter unless the in-built lens had quite a low aperture. Which is the point tsaraleksi is making, that ultimately that picture would be impossible without the appropriate lens, which is only available to SLR cameras)