WELL SH*T. I take a day to edit work I'm behind on and I miss the good stuff.
Context clues are telling me that someone... The OP, I presume, posted something slandering another photographer, this Mechelle I presume... and OP got caught. And Mechelle's feelings got hurt? And now OP is mad that someone told Mechelle that she posted the slandering thread on a public forum?
Good stuff...
ANYWAY...
To the OP: I agree with everything Derrel stated (Holy sh*t, I know! Don't pass out now...), and in addition to that I'd like to advise, next time you decide to do that, be aware that when you're linking to almost anything outside of Facebook... chances are people are able to see through stats in their site back-end where the link referrals are coming from... So those people won't even NEED someone to tell them you posted their link... they'll find out for themselves. Just cause we be on the interwebz doesn't mean we can hide our actions................
To Mechelle: Welcome

And as others have stated... put your big girl panties on... cause critique abounds here. Some of it is tastefully put... some of it is... not so tastefully put... but no matter HOW it's stated... most of the time you can learn something from it. You've put yourself onto a career path that attracts criticism whether you like it or not... whether it's publicly posted or not... so start thickening your skin now.

And it happens on ALL skill levels... from the completely amateur, to the famously professional. I'm part of a few Nashville photography forums on Facebook that hold some of the big name shooters and you should SEE some of the drama that happens in there...
It'll never go away. You just gotta keep your chin up, accept criticism graciously, even if it wasn't graciously given, say thank you, learn from it, move on, work hard, get better, rinse and repeat. :hug::