WARNING....There is a rabid troll loose on this forum. Approach with EXTREME caution

[Kbarredo]

I just get really defensive.

But why? Take a deep breath and relax.

Ive got anger issues I actually take anger management classes. Im told to talk things out with the person Im angry with but you cant do that with people over the internet. I used to get really mad when people c&c my photos.

 

[ghache]

I just get really defensive.

But why? Take a deep breath and relax.

Ive got anger issues I actually take anger management classes. Im told to talk things out with the person Im angry with but you cant do that with people over the internet. I used to get really mad when people c&c my photos.

hahahahahah, WTF?

 

[fokker]

Kbarredo, I think this thread was talking about a different troll. But I guess we could make it all about you again.

 

[Kbarredo]

nope im fine

 

[o hey tyler]

Kbarredo, I think this thread was talking about a different troll. But I guess we could make it all about you again.

 

[Dao]

I just get really defensive.

But why? Take a deep breath and relax.

Ive got anger issues I actually take anger management classes. Im told to talk things out with the person Im angry with but you cant do that with people over the internet. I used to get really mad when people c&c my photos.

I kind of sense that from the way you react. I know it is hard to tell you to take it easy, because you just can't sometimes. If you see stuff here bothering you, (even it really not the case but you still feel that way), just take a deep breath and walk away from the computer for a moment.

 

[2WheelPhoto]

 

[Rekd]

What is the point of REPLYING TO this thread other than to start an argument and have this thread closed, too?

If you don't like his posts, report them or ignore them. It simply is not worth another thread.

That just needed to be fissed...

 

[pgriz]

@ Kbarredo: we don’t know each other, but I am assuming that we share a common interest in photography and talking about it with other people. I haven’t felt the need to comment on your postings, but one phrase you used in this thread (“I used to get really mad when people C&C my photos&#8221 reminded me of the Serenity prayer (God, grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, Courage to change the things I can, And wisdom to know the difference.). When we choose to participate in a public but anonymous forum (like TPF), we control only the things we write, but not the reactions we get. If the reactions are not to our liking, we can either try to change the perceptions out there (… not going to happen&#8230, or we change what we post. If our motivation is to improve, then hearing about what isn’t working is part of the process of recognizing the mistakes and figuring out how to correct them. Of course, if self improvement is not the objective, then a look at the motivations behind the postings would be appropriate. Are we looking for affirmation? Attention? Praise? Validation?

My own motivation for posting on TPF (and other forums), is to participate in a community in which I can both learn and pass on what I know. If you look at my postings to date, you’ll see some photos for C&C, some technical questions, some philosophical ramblings and some suggestions for beginners that are walking the same path I was on. I know very well both my strengths and my weaknesses as a photographer, and neither makes me a better or worse person. On the other hand, a lesson my parents taught me early on applies – to be respected, respect others. It’s a version of the golden rule. I have also learned that sometimes the sharpest criticism is the most accurate and relevant, and listening to it (however painful) was the fastest way to get better. For those who engage in bad-mouthing others, be thankful that they reveal themselves for what they are, and also be thankful that you don’t have to interact with them.

Eh, take this for whatever it is worth. I like this forum because there are a number of posters who are helpful, know their stuff, and generally convey useful information in a pleasant and engaging manner. A few more take us along on their voyage of learning and discovery, and remind us that experience is often gotten through mistakes and mishaps. And a few more post gorgeous eye-candy to motivate and inspire us (a certain use of blacklights comes to mind). There is some entertainment value in seeing someone mess up, but it’s much more fulfilling to see them pick themselves up, and come back with good, solid results. While I haven’t been a member of this forum very long, I have been privileged to watch the evolution of some posters from snapshooters to pretty accomplished photographers. It is indeed inspiring to see the evolution and the progression. Maybe we can benefit from watching your progression as well.