I've never understood why someone would take the time to register for a forum, wait for the confirmation email, compose a post, and wait for responses instead of just typing a few words in to Google. It seriously perplexes me.
Yes, this is the age of entitlement when everyone in their 30's and down thinks that they somehow deserve to be coddled through everything, combined with a bizarre form of laziness where people will go to an absurd amount of effort to avoid... effort. It's "the customer is always right" run amok. "You have it, I need it, what's the problem?"
This is not the only forum (or general community for that matter) to exhibit this behavior - it happens everywhere. Pick a random video game and lurk in the forums for a while. People may be asking what weapon or character class is "the best" instead of what camera to buy, but the underlying
theme is exactly the same. They want the benefits or knowledge without the legwork.
There was another post on TPF a while back... I can't remember who said it (it's probably been said more than once anyways) but the gist of it was, "Why should I put more effort in to critiquing your photo than you put in to taking it?" I think that's the disconnect between the newbies and the seasoned members, in this community or any other. The neophytes honestly expect someone to come in and write sixteen paragraphs about photographic theory and artistic expression to explain the technical and aesthetic high and low points of the two dozen photos they posted, so when what they get instead is, "Out of focus, underexposed, centered," they think you're being rude. I'll put that differently - it's not necessarily
what is being said, it's
how it's being said; the
terseness of it. I mean, how
dare you not spend half your day personally escorting them through their journey to become the next Big Photographer! How dare you summarize your critique in five words when you could have written five
pages! It's right back to that entitlement attitude - as far as they're concerned, they
deserve a lengthy response from a seasoned pro. "You have the knowledge, I need it, what's the problem? You're an ass!"
That doesn't mean we should do anything differently; I don't think it's in humanity's best interest to foster that kind of attitude. The only suggestion I have for people like Kundalini who get fed up with people taking issue with their critiques is just to let it go. I've walked away from more than a couple arguments on one thread or another because it's just not worth my time to bicker with someone over some misunderstood statement or differing opinion. I'm also more than willing to admit when I made a mistake if necessary, but I [try to] resist the urge to try to get the last word in or become defensive, because in the end I don't care what that person thinks of me.
There's one other thing to consider as well though. One comment that I see a lot, and Kundalini kind of hinted at, is "why are you even in the beginner's forum?" I think some people expect to drop in to the beginner's forum and be critiqued by their
peers and not their
superiors. They figure that with enough blind people, eventually they'll all get
somewhere, and they'll all start to see just a little, and then they can keep progressing from peer group to peer group. They think to themselves, "Where can I go to be with other photographers of similar skill level?" So the beginner's forum becomes this false "safe haven" where people who might even know that they're not very good yet figure they can post their photos without fear of being ridiculed by someone far more talented. It might come as a bit of a shock to them to see professional-level critiques coming at them when they expected beginner-level critiques. Does that make sense? Again, I'm not suggesting that anyone needs to do anything about it, but I think it's helpful to see things from their perspective sometimes, and I think this is just one possible newbie perspective (though it's far less common than the entitlement crowd).
I'm really glad that there are some seasoned folks on here that really know what they're doing that are willing to spend some time with people who are just starting out. Thing is though, if they're not receptive to your help,
they are not your responsibility. Go ahead and preach, but if they don't want to hear the sermon, don't bother condemning to hell - they'll get there on their own.
