Although I appreciate the kind hearts behind the motivation to always say something nice, but that sometimes conflicts with the reality.
To me, I think it is much more important that I tell the absolute truth in an objective manner as I see it. If I can say something that will help, I do. If I like something, I say that, but I have an absolute distaste for unwarranted praise.
As a critic/commenter my responsibility is to be honest - and civil and I expect that the OP will listen to what I say and be civil in the interchange. (He/she doesn't have to believe it, just must listen).
If the OP violates the contract by being a schmuck, then I feel my requirements to be civil are abrogated. And they will get what they deserve.
I totally respect your point and I agree with it, but I think you misunderstood me.
I don't hold back what I feel about it, but there is a difference between telling them they are useless as a photographer and that picture sucks vs explaining that their picture is blurred, has no clear subject and that blurred horse (or is that their dog?) clearly has a tree growing out of it's head (or is that it's butt?), but I can say it without being offensive and demeaning to the person as a human being.
We all want the same thing, to be explained what is wrong and how to fix it and how to do better in the future. Being told they are a photographic dolt is not critique, its an insult (I am exaggerating, of course, but thats just to make it clear to those who are not clear on what I mean).
I think some people need to define the difference between an insult and a critique to themselves... and offer more critique and less insults.
Not to sugar coat it, but there are honestly very few pics posted where one looks at it and say "ugh! thats just plain terrible"... and even with those few, you have to give credit to the photographer for at least trying, and at least there you can finish off your critique with " well you can see that there is a lot of room for improvement, but it was a good effort. Next time try... ".
I was bloody lucky with my one critique so far. They were polite, explained that I had a railing growing out of the head of my subject as well as a few things that at the time were above my understanding.
I took all the criticism, said, "yup he's right about... ", looked at what I did not know said "huh?" and and used that to learn more about lighting than I was expecting to from their comments.
Everyone who posts there wants a critique, but no one is looking to be insulted. If someone finds themselves wanting to get really nasty with someone... there is a little red "X" at the top of the window that they should use. I've done it numerous times myself!
Ladies and Gents, it is so close to the holiday season and maybe we need to take a small step back, go shoot some photos that make us feel good about this time of the year and once we come here with good feeling, we should share that. I don't know about you, but I think I am going to go start a thread that does *just* that.
