For the Ladies

ShutteredEye · Oct 21, 2005

steve817 said:
It's a discipline thing, simple as that.

And a maturity/immaturity thing. And a selfishness/unselfishness thing.

steve817 · Oct 21, 2005

mountainlander said:
And a maturity/immaturity thing. And a selfishness/unselfishness thing.

LOL I was in the middle of editing when you posted. But still a good add on.

bace · Oct 21, 2005

Ok guys. Women cheat too.

I personally haven't truely cheated on anyone that I was actually "Going out with". It's a respect thing.

I have seen many women at the same time, but that's because I wasn't really "in to" any of them. And when I was, they weren't into me.

Regardless, let's not get all phylisophical. Women are evil. That's basically the end of it.

LizM · Oct 21, 2005

steve817 said:
The reason is that most women can't handle that fact. They are so emotionally tied to their male partners that they can't even fathom the thought of said partner thinking of another.

You are SOOOOO deluded!!!!! :eyebrows:

steve817 · Oct 21, 2005

LizM said:
You are SOOOOO deluded!!!!!

de·lude de·lud·ed, de·lud·ing, de·ludes

To deceive the mind or judgment of.
Obsolete. To elude or evade.
Obsolete. To frustrate the hopes or plans of.

How so? Or did you mean diluted? Anyway I admit I could be wrong about the reason they lie about it and should change the wording from "most women" to "alot of women". And was half-assed joking when I said they should (Guys your results may vary). But the basic truth is still there.

Now of course there are "some women" who are into that kind of thing. That's a subject in itself.

terri · Oct 21, 2005

meh. Don't water it down into some boring sexist drivel. A more accurate statement would be that ANY of us with a so-called committed relationship would have a hard time swallowing the scenario of their loved one thinking about or being with someone else.

Men certainly want to believe their women are totally into them, blind to other men. In fact the more passionately they need that belief to be true, the more they hold women as evil - just for our ability to hold their trembling hearts so lightly in the palms of our hands.

It's a power struggle, and a pointless one. Maybe we'd do better to all get naked, grease up and jump in a pile - lose the allure of mystery, real fast.

That's a joke. :lol:

Corry · Oct 21, 2005

Ya know, with Bace's whole 'women are evil' stance, I'm starting to think he's really my boyfriend using an Alias. Bace, are you an alias? Is your real name Erik?

steve817 · Oct 22, 2005

terri said:
A more accurate statement would be that ANY of us with a so-called committed relationship would have a hard time swallowing the scenario of their loved one thinking about or being with someone else.

I don't know about that, it doesn't bother me. Maybe it has more to do with how secure one is with themself.

PlasticSpanner · Oct 22, 2005

photogoddess said:
Why do some men cheat on the one they love for random tail while other men are super loyal?

Depends at which point men realise that all women fart in bed and stink the WC out when the go for a dump!

The grass is not greener, it's all the same shade of life!

jstuedle · Oct 22, 2005

I think a relationship is built on trust and time. I started dating Cathy when I was 16. We married a few weeks after my 18th b-day. Today I turn 50 and we are still married so you can do the math. The longer we are together, the more I trust her and the less I worry about her "looking" at others. She works in a casino and is hit on be men daily, both by patrons of the casino and co-workers. For the first 10 years of our relationship, she was very jealous of anyone I even looked at. That has passed, I think, maybe, almost, well maybe not. We are both very committed and secure in our relationship and more so with each passing day.

Now, as far as women being evil, let me tell you! On our wedding night Cathy told me I had choices in our relationship. We made a pledge 'till death do us part.:hail: If I wander, it's my choice, .44 or .45, head or gut. 'Cause you gonna die sucker!

Meysha · Oct 22, 2005

:-(

Awww... you guys make me realise how much I love my boyfriend. :lovey:

We trust each other more than anything. And whenever of us has 'issues' we can and do talk to each other about it. Our relationship hasn't been perfect 100% of the time... maybe only 99% of the time, but I've made a couple of mistakes but we always work through them together.

Communication is the key I beleive. If you're open, willing and trust the other person enough, you can talk about anything and everything and know that it will all still be ok once it's over.

:lovey:

awww I have to go ring him now and tell him I love him!!

jstuedle · Oct 22, 2005

Communication is the key I beleive.

Cathy communicates quite well, .44/.45. I GOT the message!!!

PlasticSpanner · Oct 22, 2005

jstuedle said:
Now, as far as women being evil, let me tell you! On our wedding night Cathy told me I had choices in our relationship. We made a pledge 'till death do us part.:hail: If I wander, it's my choice, .44 or .45, head or gut. 'Cause you gonna die sucker!

So do you stay faithful through loyalty or fear? :lol:

Meysha · Oct 22, 2005

Hey while I'm congratulating you... Happy Birthday John!!!

LizM · Oct 22, 2005

steve817 said:
de·lude de·lud·ed, de·lud·ing, de·ludes

To deceive the mind or judgment of.

Obsolete. To elude or evade.

Obsolete. To frustrate the hopes or plans of.

How so? Or did you mean diluted? Anyway I admit I could be wrong about the reason they lie about it and should change the wording from "most women" to "alot of women". And was half-assed joking when I said they should (Guys your results may vary). But the basic truth is still there.

Now of course there are "some women" who are into that kind of thing. That's a subject in itself.

Deluded as in deceiving yourself. Anyway, just meaning that EVERYONE window shops. You just aren't supposed to buy anything. If someone can't handle that fact they need to grow up fast. And in reality women are some of the biggest window shoppers there are.:mrgreen: