Interesting...
The only thing in world I find offensive, is being offended... and in truth, I really just find that silly but it's more amusing to say it the other way.
People deem things offensive based upon their own personal, cultural, religious, etc. positions and experiences in life. Very obviously what is offensive to one person may not be to another. This has all been said and tends to be clearly understood.
But what I don't get is why people don't take the next step... which is simply that there are really only two acceptable options in the realm of "offense".
1. Be offended by everything.
2. Be offended by nothing.
Simply stated if you allow yourself to be offended selectively, you are effectively saying that your position on issue X is right, and not only is the other person wrong but they are wrong at a level so extreme as to illicit deep emotional reaction from you... and they should change their view. And yet... so often is the case where reversing direction would please you... and offend them. Who is right? Who is in the position to judge what is right?
From taking pictures of strong arms with Nazi symbolism to Howard Stern to flag burning to hate... if you accept one, you must accept all. Why? Because they are expressions of thoughts, ideas, feelings and emotions. They have no impact on your other than vibrating the drums of your ears and firing the optical nerves in your eyes.
To speak such words... make such images... express such thoughts... these are the basis of freedom. True freedom. It is a blessing and a curse, but the curse is an irritant and the blessing is something far far greater.
So...
Would I hang the picture in my living room? No.
Is it offensive? I can say, with pride... no. Not at all. Nothing offends me.
Well said. I'm with you, nothing offends me. That's why I asked others what they thought... I sometimes think I'm an insensitive !@#$.Is it offensive? I can say, with pride... no. Not at all. Nothing offends me.
Interesting...
The only thing in world I find offensive, is being offended... and in truth, I really just find that silly but it's more amusing to say it the other way.
People deem things offensive based upon their own personal, cultural, religious, etc. positions and experiences in life. Very obviously what is offensive to one person may not be to another. This has all been said and tends to be clearly understood.
But what I don't get is why people don't take the next step... which is simply that there are really only two acceptable options in the realm of "offense".
1. Be offended by everything.
2. Be offended by nothing.
Simply stated if you allow yourself to be offended selectively, you are effectively saying that your position on issue X is right, and not only is the other person wrong but they are wrong at a level so extreme as to illicit deep emotional reaction from you... and they should change their view. And yet... so often is the case where reversing direction would please you... and offend them. Who is right? Who is in the position to judge what is right?
From taking pictures of strong arms with Nazi symbolism to Howard Stern to flag burning to hate... if you accept one, you must accept all. Why? Because they are expressions of thoughts, ideas, feelings and emotions. They have no impact on your other than vibrating the drums of your ears and firing the optical nerves in your eyes.
To speak such words... make such images... express such thoughts... these are the basis of freedom. True freedom. It is a blessing and a curse, but the curse is an irritant and the blessing is something far far greater.
So...
Would I hang the picture in my living room? No.
Is it offensive? I can say, with pride... no. Not at all. Nothing offends me.
Very well said!