MDowdey said:
Has anyone taken or is in the process of taking any martial arts?
Hi MD,
Hope you don't mind this long reply, but that's a long question and I just want to possibly help.
I've been training for years and I absolutely love it and wouldn't trade the time I've put in for anything in the world.
IF you train in the rihgt art and
IF you go to a good school (bad schools are often referred to as "McDojo's") you get a combination of physical fitness, confidence, self defense, you meet new people, you improve your reflexes big time etc.
Honestly, my strong suggestion would be to sign up for the forum at mma.tv and ask for good places in your location; people do that all the time and get tons of great advice.
But I'll give you my thoughts, I'm no expert and I get beat all the time, but for what they're worth...
First, decide what you are interested in, or, put another way, decide how
serious you are about training.. Are you just interested in a "cardio" workout or just to be able to say to your friends that you're taking martial arts? Are you interested in the "metaphysical" side of martial arts, whatever that means? If you're interested in any of that stuff, I can't help you at all, try the local YMCA or tae kwon do school, and you can stop reading now and ignore the rest of this message...
But if you're interested in self defense, I would suggest a school that teaches a combination of Muay Thai and Brazilian Jiu Jitsu. Most schools nowadays offer both, because both of those have been proven to be the most effective arts (and really, the only effective ones) out there through events like the UFC (
www.ufc.tv) and Pride (
www.pridefc.com).
Here is the main school I train at:
http://www.carlosmachado.net
Here is another school I train it, every other Friday:
http://www.saekson.com
I personally go to the best BJJ and best Muay Thai school in the DFW area, however, not everyone can afford to do that. Look for a school that offers both, from accredited instructrors.
Here is a good example of a school that that has a "combination" of muay thai and BJJ:
http://www.ndbjj.com
I will warn you about this, it is not easy to find a "good, quality'" school. If you live in a small town or very small city, your chances of training at a good school are not good; but it is possible. This is why it would save you a lot of grief to sign up at mma.tv and post a message telling people what city you're in - if there's a good school there, trust me, you'll hear about it. And as a side note, that site gets about 40,000 hits a day and some fairly famous people are on there; I've talked to Joe Rogan several times on that forum! Didn't know if you knew but he's into martial arts also.
As a "general rule," if you check out a school and they're teaching you to fight guys who have guns, or they have you bow in and treat the instructor like he's some kind of GOD, and they tell you you should never use your art becase it's too "deadly" or you'll have to register your hands as weopons when you get your black belt (which is typically about a year), or that their art will teach you that you can kill Shaquill O'Neill in one blow (Sorry to break it to you, but if you trained for 10 years in any martial art someone like that would probably hurt you bad), then run! As fast as you can - you'v encountered a true McDojo.
Hope that helps, let me know if you need any other information, take care.