FYI, I'm only doing this in pubic, to help clear up any misconceptions about why it happened in the first place.
And it's already been explained as such, so you shouldn't even have to.
Hey, fellow forum members/rules lawyers: When a mod or admin on a forum says "stop", you stop. It's that simple.
You don't do it again and say, "gee, I guess this one is against the rules too, eh?" If you want to challenge a rule or their authority, you PM them or another mod or admin about the situation. You don't offer yourself up as a drama-queen wanna-be martyr with a public challenge, unless you want to actually be sacrificed and are prepared for it.
It doesn't really get any simpler than that.
The public whine-fest and faux-confusion and concern over what's allowed and what's not regarding this issue is getting downright childish.