Sm4him, I was always encouraged to be creative, but discouraged to pursue it as a career. So thus the grasping careers occured.
I loved biology, and took two marine biology classes and that was my career goal. Until I learned how many yucky math classes I would have to take for that degree. Well that, and finally being freaked out by barracuda circling me, quite literally. Then I was a psychology major, then a teaching major, then advertising/graphic design, and it all settled back into art. And much to my parents surprise, I am NOT a ditch digger.
If only my mom was here to see me now!
I think it's sad that you didn't pursue art further, and that you felt intimidated by your family.
Ha, I can just see the barracuda circling! That would definitely do it for me!
I've really never understood WHY I was so intimidated by my family; I guess just being the youngest of 5 kids, and all of my siblings as well as my parents were incredibly intelligent, well-spoken and good at the things they'd chosen to do--I just always felt like the slow, stupid one.

It didn't help that they all seemed to have self-confidence in abundance, and me, not so much.
But I never got ANY of that opinion FROM my family; they were encouraging and supporting. My dad, who worked in a job he pretty much hated all his life, just to support his family, always encouraged each of us to find what we loved and DO it, even if that meant struggling to make ends meet sometimes.
These days, I have my own kids who are now in college, making those choices that will affect the rest of their lives, without really the skills or insight needed to make those decisions. My oldest wants to be a rocket scientist, and definitely has the brains for it. But he has a creative side to, and I've always tried to encourage it.
My youngest is an artist. I've seen it in him since he was four years old. He went through periods where he decided to be a geologist (actually, quite a LONG period), and several other things, but he always comes back to art. He's brilliant, just as much as his older brother--he could easily be a rocket scientist himself, if he wanted. But he doesn't. He IS an artist; it's what he loves, and it's always been clear to me that he is gifted. So, much as some small part of me wants to encourage him into a more "secure" career...I have never discouraged him from going for it. The one thing I did do is insist he go to a four-year college/university, not just art school. He can major in art, but get a more rounded education as well. His art teacher in high school knew he was gifted, and really encouraged him. That was a huge help to him.
His first semester at school was this fall, and evidently his art teacher there was pretty impressed as well. He not only made an A on his semester portfolio, he made an A on every single piece in it.
I'm probably more proud of HIS art accomplishments than I could ever be of my own, anyway.