thank you so much... you know what?! My uncle (grandmother's brother actually) had 2 children... and they cannot speak polish.. even one word. And of course the whole almost 40or-so-members family wanted ME to call him, give our condolences and ask for details about unckle's death. It was a disaster... It is so hard to talk to somebody whom you've never seen, talk about his father's death and funeral and so on...gosh... but he was so happy that I called... because I'm the only personi in the whole family who speaks english quite fluently and can communicate... after all... we talked for about 20 minutes and he told me that... he'll come here, to PL with unckle's ashes, to honour him and the oldest generation in my family... ahhh....