It's actually very logical because f8 is an absolute value and is f8 is f8 is f8 no matter what camera you're using. "Dim" or "Bright" are relative terms and will not tell you what you need to know.
Okay... baby steps.
First decide what aperture you want. This will be determined by the depth of field necessary to have the amount of the scene in sharp focus that you want in sharp focus. The DoF is determined by the focal length of the lens, the aperture and the distance from the subject. You know the focal length and distance because you've figured out where you need the camera to frame the image the way you want. Now, take those two parameters and consult your DoF table of smartphone "app". It will tell you what aperture you need. For the sake of example, you need f8.
Now, set up your strobes the way you want, and make a WAG about the power settings; failing all else, go for the middle on all of them to start. Now, take the trigger off of your camera and place the meter against the subject, and using the test button on the trigger, trip the strobe FOR YOU KEY LIGHT ONLY (turn the others off for now). Let's say that the meter now shows f11. Reduce the strobe output power by a bit and test again, repeat until you have f8.
Next turn off the key light and turn on the fill light. You've decided that you want 1 stop of dynamic range between highlights and shadows in the shot, so that means you will need to set your strobe to f11. Repeat the 'test-adjust-test-adjust' process with your fill until you get f11.
Once the fill is done, turn it off and turn on both background lights and meter the background AT THE BACKGROUND; you want f8 (same as your key) or slightly above, say f8 +1/3; just enough to render the background pure white. Once you've done that, turn on all the lights, place your trigger back on the camera's hot shoe and shoot the scene with the camera at f8 and maximum sync speed (usually 1/200 - /250) and look at the image you get. Start adding flags and reflectors as necessary to increase or decrease light to a specific area.