Girl Trouble

ronlane · Aug 25, 2013

Probably should just let this one go. Oh and while you are at it go over here and vote NO.

Rob99 · Aug 25, 2013

DGMPhotography said:
Thanks for the feedback, y'all.... I like Trever's idea of paying her back in some way.. what do the ladies think of this?

Fck her sister.

The_Traveler · Aug 25, 2013

Rob99 said:
DGMPhotography said:

Thanks for the feedback, y'all.... I like Trever's idea of paying her back in some way.. what do the ladies think of this?

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Fck her sister.

a totally classless remark.

runnah · Aug 25, 2013

The_Traveler said:
a totally classless remark.

Yup, she might not even have a sister.

Derrel · Aug 25, 2013

runnah said:
The_Traveler said:

a totally classless remark.

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Yup, she might not even have a sister.

And her sister has probably already heard a bunch of trash talk about you too, so...I would not expect to get anywhere with her sister either.

Dinardy · Aug 25, 2013

A girl did this to me once, kind of, I honestly thought she was the one.
We would stay connected from dawn to the late hours of the night. Both leading very busy lives but would make an effort daily (almost hourly) to stay connected.
She lived 400 miles (while finishing up at school) away but it didn't matter.
We loved the same music, and would swap tracks and albums on a daily basis. She loved photography, she would paint, was a *dancer* the PG kind.
We went on about 5-6 successful "dates" I thought I did EVERYTHING right... somethings wrong but she didn't seem to mind.
The first kiss was textbook. Cold winter night in an empty parking lot.
I thought I had her, I was ready to pack my bags and move to a college town.
Met her parents on a few separate occasions, they seemed to like me.
But then, she stopped replying to my texts, phone calls, she became busy. Fabricating excuses that I didn't believe.
I was heart broken.

Fast forward one month I somehow ended up at a New years party with her best friend.
Setup by my friend
We ended up clicking, moving in together, having two daughters.
The woman I ended up settling with is not the woman I imagined myself being with, AT ALL, but I love her to death and wouldn't trade her in for anyone.
She's definitely the one I was meant to be with, she tolerates me well lol
Life is full of surprises.

The girl I thought was the one still hates me. Maybe she did care...

Hang in there broham.

gsgary · Aug 25, 2013

No chance she wanted rampent sex and you didnt have it in you so she is letting you down gently

The_Traveler · Aug 25, 2013

There is no such thing as 'the one'.
It didn't work, pay what you owe with no ulterior scheme and just move on.

kathyt · Aug 25, 2013

I honestly wouldn't pay her back at this point. I think the damage is done. Didn't you have another credit card, or like Derrel said....some cash? I think first impressions are kinda important especially since it sounds like you were pretty keen on her. I don't know maybe I am old fashioned when it comes to first dates, but I would be kinda bummed too. Why was she driving and you didn't pick her up? If this would have happened on the second date it probably wouldn't have been such a big deal because you would have already established some creditability, but the first???

gsgary · Aug 25, 2013

You ****ed up get over it

ratssass · Aug 25, 2013

Dear Abbey...I'm Confused...

Rob99 said:
DGMPhotography said:

Thanks for the feedback, y'all.... I like Trever's idea of paying her back in some way.. what do the ladies think of this?

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Fck her sister.

....thats funny.......i don't care who ya are!!

...i was gonna say slap her on the azz,and tell her to make you a sammich,at the next social event. :wink:

Heitz · Aug 25, 2013

Here's the answer: Next time you're in a group setting with other girls, flirt BIG TIME with a girl that is less attractive than she is. It will drive her crazy because 1) you appear to no longer be interested in her and 2) this obviously less attractive girl is getting all your attention, and she gets none.

I know it sounds counter-intuitive, but it works.