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I actually just turned 20
My dad never let me get my license when I was younger. I should be getting my license in the next week or so, and a car shortly after.
So here's my plan...
Get the license, get the car. Just be cool in the meantime. Then leave flowers on her doorstep and see what happens from there.
This your first rodeo cowboy?
I actually just turned 20
My dad never let me get my license when I was younger. I should be getting my license in the next week or so, and a car shortly after.
So here's my plan...
Get the license, get the car. Just be cool in the meantime. Then leave flowers on her doorstep and see what happens from there.
Buying flowers is throwing good money after bad.
You're 20yrs old, living at home without a car or drivers license and have issues paying for dinner. I know that sounds harsh but that's the facts. Now with that said, I think this shows you a whole other side of this girl. She blew you off at the first hint of trouble. Anyhow, I think you should love and respect your self and move on. You have already tried communicating with her and without luck. If he wants you, let her come to you. FYI: You need a car for independence but I met my wife without a car, she would drive 8 miles one way just to pick me up...never asked or gas or anything...but I paid for the dates.
This was/is your downfall. She didn't need your "mood". She needed a positive, upbeat person. Even if you had the card problem and have no license and car, it's how you handle yourself that counts. No reason why this needed to keep you from being "awesome".I felt pretty bad, and when you're feeling bad you're not much in the mood to be awesome.
Yikes! I suspect you're likely lagging behind your peers socially in other areas as well. She probably saw this and was uncomfortable. Nothing you can do at that point. Reflect, learn, grow.My dad never let me get my license when I was younger
You will probably need at the very least a handful of 6 month or longer relationships before you know enough about women and yourself and yourself with women to have any chance of finding and keeping a partner for life. More likely, several 1+ year relationships.If you've had only one other date, just got a license and a car, you have absolutely no conceivable reason to be looking for 'the one.'
I honestly wouldn't pay her back at this point. I think the damage is done. Didn't you have another credit card, or like Derrel said....some cash? I think first impressions are kinda important especially since it sounds like you were pretty keen on her. I don't know maybe I am old fashioned when it comes to first dates, but I would be kinda bummed too. Why was she driving and you didn't pick her up? If this would have happened on the second date it probably wouldn't have been such a big deal because you would have already established some creditability, but the first???
I don't have a car... Or license
Treat them mean...It will keep them keen. I'm serious. If she thinks she can have you at the click of her fingers, she won't be bothered. If she feels like she's got to traverse hell and high water just to get you to acknowledge her, she'll suddenly find you more desirable than Johnny Depp wrapped in milk chocolate.
Girls crave, and are used to attention, so not giving them what they’re used to will puzzle them and make them want to know more about you and why you aren’t hanging on their every word. If you’re approaching a group of girls, pay more attention to the one that you’re not actually after. Make the other girls laugh.
Once she’s been treated mean and kept keen, she will start wanting to be looked after by the perfect gentleman. Trust me.
:badangel:
Treat them mean...It will keep them keen. I'm serious. If she thinks she can have you at the click of her fingers, she won't be bothered. If she feels like she's got to traverse hell and high water just to get you to acknowledge her, she'll suddenly find you more desirable than Johnny Depp wrapped in milk chocolate.
Girls crave, and are used to attention, so not giving them what theyre used to will puzzle them and make them want to know more about you and why you arent hanging on their every word. If youre approaching a group of girls, pay more attention to the one that youre not actually after. Make the other girls laugh.
Once shes been treated mean and kept keen, she will start wanting to be looked after by the perfect gentleman. Trust me.
:badangel: