Photography has become a lot like tattoos. Nothing but meaningless trends that EVERYONE HAS TO FOLLOW in order to express their individuality. yeah, the irony escapes the 20 people standing in line at the tattoo shop to get the same tattoo of something, say a feather, that is supposed to "proclaim their individuality to the world".
You see, you invalidate your very argument with this straw-man you've constructed. While I have no tattoos myself I know lots of people that have tattoos, including people that got theirs long before I met them, people that got them 20+ years ago around the time I met them, and people that I was already acquainted with that got them. I've been to tattoo parlors with some of them and listened as they discussed their ideas with potential tattoo artists, and when some browsed through existing artwork that was available either for direct duplication or for inspiration.
At no point were people standing in line at the tattoo parlor. People scheduled appointments with the tattoo artist or else found the artist free and got spur-of-the-moment work done because of his or her availability. No one sat around for extended periods of time, and other than groups going in for something relevant to that group, like fraternities or sororities, series of people did not get the same tattoos over and over and over again.
With photography, things have devolved more then that. Once upon a time in the 1900-1960 range, photography was used to capture important moments and events. Say billy graduates from Ranger School, break out the camera and put him in uniform with the family cuz we gonna make pictures. And theyd take photos of him with everyone.
Nowadays, people will do instagram hash tag photos non stop. Like, on Monday everyone has to do a photo of their shoe as a hand puppet. On Tuesday its a photo of their cat sleeping on the kitchen table.... yada yada yada.
With the semi professional world of photography, the wedding and school photo group. NOT putting them down but they seem to adore kitchy crap in photos. NOT because it makes a photo better, but because someone more famous is doing it.
People still take photos of personal significance. Hell, of the ~10,000 photos I've taken in the last three years, more than 9000 of them are family photos. I do not upload or share those photos with anyone other than family or close personal family friends. Those photos are for me, and while I want to make them as good, arguably artful as I can, they're not really for anyone else. Most people wouldn't find them interesting anyway, so why over-share?
If you don't like hash tags, or instagram, or fads, or challenges, don't go to Instagram, or follow hashtags, or look at what fads or challenges people have elected to participate with. No one is forcing you to look. I'm generally not a fan of modern art, so when I vacationed in London a few years ago, I
didn't go to the Tate Modern. Wow, that was a tough one. I'm not a fan of mixed-media, so I avoid going to galleries for mixed-media artists. Such a chore! I'm not a fan of "influencers" or of fads or of instagram, somehow I've managed to generally avoid going to instagram.