Mods,
I don't think there is so much anger at what you guys are doing, because most of it has paid dividends, there are two habits that seem to cause the most problem: inconsistency and invisibility.
The inconsistency is something that you guys have to iron out. Rather than leaving it to one mod to decide, it would be nicer if at least two mods take a stance on the final deletion of a thread. I have never seen a thread disappear and then return, meaning that decisions are never questioned by another mod. That, in itself, is bad policy, imo.
We have the situation now where things that seem sort of harmless are disappeared along with the worst of stuff.
Stop moderating to the letter and moderate to the spirit.
If something isn't doing anything hurtful, leave it.
If a thread is removed, leave the initial post and explain why it was removed.
Then the moderation will make some sense and we aren't dealing with the invisible, all powerful hand.
a great example of that...a gun thread, clearly against forum rules, is allowed to stay because "it didn't get ugly".
schwettys "goodby thread" , also against the rules, but not ugly, immediately removed. Inconsistent.
I understand that different mods have different views, but honestly, that just comes off sounding like an excuse. yes yes, we know mods are volunteers and don't get paid anything, we are reminded of that often enough. and we DO appreciate the work that the mods do..mostly.
But consistency among the people dictating what you can and cannot do here is important, and a lack of such breeds ill-content. but when that lack of consistency is mentioned, all we hear is "mods are people too, we aren't paid to do this, mods all have different views of the "rules"...and after a while, it starts feeling like the generic cop-out appeasement speech. personally, I would be more than happy if , when this issue came up, a Mod said "enough people have mentioned this problem that the mods are going to arrange a meeting, through emails or whatever, and actually discuss this as a group, and reach some sort of consensus". And then let us know what that decision was, and why they decided on it. because obviously, moderating to the "spirit" of the law means totally different things to different people. all we get is "those are the rules, and some Mod decided to enforce it"
If we are undeserving of an explanation for why things are done the way they are, just say so, its not like we HAVE to be here if we choose not to be. (another wonderful take it or leave it battle cry)